so much of this makes me uncomfortable wow
I’d love to see someone attempt to defend the clothing industry
YES! Except I spend way more than $30 on bras because my size isn’t sold everywhere only specialty bra stores. Last time I went bra shopping I spent close to $400 for 4 bras >_<
^^^ that last comment. My bras cost upwards from $60-$90 for A SINGLE BRA. And you need to buy a good quality one otherwise what’s the point? Buhh!! :c
I am surprised by how much sex I have had in my life that I didn’t want to have. Not exactly what’s considered “real” rape, or “date” rape, although it is a kind of rape of the spirit - a dishonest portrayal or distortion of my own desire in order to appease another person.
I said yes because I felt it was too much trouble to say no. I said yes because I didn’t want to have to defend my “no,” qualify it, justify it - deserve it. I said yes because I thought I was so ugly and fat that I should just take sex every time it was offered, because who knew when it would be offered again. I said yes to partners I never wanted in the first place, because to say no at any point after saying yes for so long would make our entire relationship a lie, so I had to keep saying yes in order to keep the “no” I felt a secret. That is such a messed-up way to live, such an awful way to love.
So these days, I say yes only when I mean yes. It does require some vigilance on my part to make sure I don’t just go on sexual automatic pilot and let people do whatever. It forces me to be really honest with myself and others. It makes me remember that loving myself is also about protecting myself and defending my own borders. I say yes to me.
i really should be in bed because i have to get up early tomorrow but this is just too entertaining
The original Japanese version of sonic x is very different from the english one…
I went to Frisky Business for the first time today and now I am a changed woman. I… I never knew I could want so many things in one store.
Also, I snagged a pair of thigh-high velvet boots for like $40. Get on my level.
We’re going together soon. Mama needs to try on a few corsets.
Corsets and whips and toys… oh my!
And fried chicken. Obviously.
My sister claims everyone’s forgotten about it and I want to prove her wrong.
Working on my paper is hard on both of us.
Two-time Academy Award winner Emma Thompson